26) What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have?
If I were to seek, I would look for someone who can almost outsmart me *grin*, someone who has little fear or caution, merely common sense.
I need someone who can push past no, without actually causing irreparable damage.
Bend not break 🙂
I require intelligence and street smarts. Someone who can match my sarcasm and live up to my scrutiny. I test those I’m with, I trust very little. Someone has to be able to deal with that, and pass :).
Deal breakers…..one who wants/needs multiple subs. Arrogance….ignorance, I guess those are the same things I would stay away from in a vanilla partner too.
But I honestly do not think I will seek again. Perhaps in a few years, if I find myself completely alone, I may need to find that release, but I believe that eventually if I have the opportunity I will enjoy my aloneness. (not a word, I know)