Hope I don’t end up here before the end of the weekend 🙂
4) Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
I do not switch and have no desire to do so. I once met a need of a friend by being a sort of temporary Domme, but it was only to help my friend express his submissive desires, it was not something I really got into.
I enjoy submitting, I enjoy being taken, I enjoy being used, I enjoy torture and helplessnes. It helps me relax.
3) How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission?
The first clue I had that I was submissive was my overwhelming feeling of stimulation when seeing pictures, videos etc of helpless women.
Expressing my submission is often fraught with many emotions, and often a struggle, but in the end, it always makes me happy, content and calm.
Thoughts on a Master and His submissive/slave
A true Master shall take pride in the fact that a woman has chosen to devote her entire being to the satisfaction and fulfillment of his desires. Just as she, in return, can take pride that such a man has chosen her, above all others to provide that fulfillment. For openers, the female should decide that she may actually be a true submissive, and find the courage and commitment to put herself in the hands of a true Master. She must know that at that precise moment her option to make choices will end. He will do what he wants to do, completely apart from her preconceived ideas.
I am not necessarily referring to physical discipline, and I am most definitely not referring to the extremes of physical discipline. There are always limits, and the true Master knows what they are. He also knows that those limits are different for every slave. But he also knows that regardless of those individually determined limits, every slave should at least once be forced to go one step beyond what she believes she can endure.
A Master should do what pleases him. The secret is to know the submissive/slave well enough so that while pleasing himself, he also provides her with fulfillment. But he should also once in awhile take his submissive/slave (even for a brief moment) slightly beyond her own self-conceived limits. But in doing so, he must take care not to really hurt her. Again he must know the submissive/slave well. In short, a submissive/slave should, once in awhile, be forced to beg to plead, “Oh God, please stop!” But after every session, a submissive/slave should also, if only just to herself, always say, “Oh God, I want him to have me again!”